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The Real Me: Finding My Way Back Through Motherhood

2018 was a turning point for me, but not in the way you might expect. There was no big move, no new career—just me, feeling more lost than I had ever felt. After my youngest, Lily, started growing out of the baby stage, I expected to feel more like myself again. Instead, I found myself grappling with a restlessness that felt like a constant companion. Looking back, I see it was a sign I had drifted too far from the person I used to be.


The Wake-Up Call

It hit me hard one day—I was living life on autopilot, fulfilling the roles of wife and mom, but neglecting the person behind those titles. I loved my family fiercely, but I realized loving them didn't mean I had to lose myself. It wasn't fair to them, and it certainly wasn't fair to me. I wanted my kids to see their mom chasing her dreams, embracing life with both hands, not just getting by day to day.


Embracing Change

So, I decided it was time for a change. Not the "new year, new me" kind that fizzles out by February, but a real, deep-rooted transformation. I threw myself into personal development, soaking up wisdom from mentors, books, and courses. What started as a solo journey quickly included my whole family. We learned to grow together, ensuring we were all heading in the same direction—forward.

The Aha Moment

Talking openly about my struggles, I discovered I wasn't alone. So many moms felt the same way. This wasn't just my fight; it was ours. The realization was both scary and empowering. It pushed me to look deeper, to understand why we felt disconnected despite seemingly having it all.


Rediscovering My Voice

Amidst this quest, I reconnected with an old love—writing. My thoughts, once jumbled and confused, started to flow more freely on paper. Writing became my therapy, my joy, and eventually, my way to reach out to others. It was through this passion that the idea for something bigger began to take shape.



The Birth of Destination Thrive

My journey of self-discovery led me to create Destination Thrive, a space born out of my own need for connection and growth. It's more than just a platform; it's a community for

moms like us, trying to find our way back to ourselves while juggling diapers, deadlines, and everything in between.


Let's Walk This Path Together

If any part of my story strikes a chord with you, I'm here to say, "You're not alone." We all have those moments of doubt, but it's what we do next that defines us. Let's choose to thrive, not just survive.

Join me at Destination Thrive. Whether you're looking for inspiration, a sense of community, or just a place to share your own journey, we've got a spot waiting for you. And don't miss out on our workshops and meetups designed with you in mind.





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